Reality Bytes :)
A perfect hectic day that drived me all nuts. Still with an hour's sound sleep guess my thoughts are crystal clear after long days.. :/
Why do we get a sense of belonging to certain people within a short time, while even being with certain others for a pretty long time, we fail blatantly to strike a chord with them?
It's been a question thats been popping up within me for quite a long time :P
Relationships has always made me wonder. Have been wondering with all those broken relationships and failed marriages happenning around,in way leading to a more or less compromised, adjourned life :P
The ability to relate with people, to understand them, to express ourselves- guess these are vital for every relationship to flourish. There is no magic mantra that can make any of our relationships work better than these interpersonal skills. At times chances are there for people to over estimate relationships to their advantage. Though the vice versa do happen, its not found that common I guess :/
The way we value things, lays the ground work in setting the limits, & boundaries for every of our relationships in a way. The way people reciprocate the love,care,sincerity and all those wide range of emotions we portray, depends a way lot on that. So let your loved one's know that you love them, make them feel the warmth and care that you cherish for them in your own way. Give them a chance to know, how you value them, what runs in your mind...Let the channels of communication be open...And Lets just lose ourselves completely, as we nonchalantly play those chords of expectations, on the strained strands of intimacies and closeness, in a search to find those unquestionable parallels with the people we Love and Adore, keeping in mind not to tether the sanctity and serenity of our relationships.
We do learn a lot with each passing day, in a vehement struggle to earn our bread and butter of the hour. Still its the relationships we are blessed with, that instill in us the that vigour, and eventually shape and mould us into better individuals to a greater extent or in a way gives us that sense of completeness, which makes our life worth living. :)
Why do we get a sense of belonging to certain people within a short time, while even being with certain others for a pretty long time, we fail blatantly to strike a chord with them?
It's been a question thats been popping up within me for quite a long time :P
Relationships has always made me wonder. Have been wondering with all those broken relationships and failed marriages happenning around,in way leading to a more or less compromised, adjourned life :P
The ability to relate with people, to understand them, to express ourselves- guess these are vital for every relationship to flourish. There is no magic mantra that can make any of our relationships work better than these interpersonal skills. At times chances are there for people to over estimate relationships to their advantage. Though the vice versa do happen, its not found that common I guess :/
The way we value things, lays the ground work in setting the limits, & boundaries for every of our relationships in a way. The way people reciprocate the love,care,sincerity and all those wide range of emotions we portray, depends a way lot on that. So let your loved one's know that you love them, make them feel the warmth and care that you cherish for them in your own way. Give them a chance to know, how you value them, what runs in your mind...Let the channels of communication be open...And Lets just lose ourselves completely, as we nonchalantly play those chords of expectations, on the strained strands of intimacies and closeness, in a search to find those unquestionable parallels with the people we Love and Adore, keeping in mind not to tether the sanctity and serenity of our relationships.
We do learn a lot with each passing day, in a vehement struggle to earn our bread and butter of the hour. Still its the relationships we are blessed with, that instill in us the that vigour, and eventually shape and mould us into better individuals to a greater extent or in a way gives us that sense of completeness, which makes our life worth living. :)
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