Guys and Girls Ponder a while! :)

                    Read a really good post in Shobha De's Blog, expressing concern over the literal death of flirting in the society. Well  these days nobody has the time to flirt around and waste, thats something true. Forget the case of flirting, what really concerns me is the pathetic atitude of people, not only on flirting or kidding around, but even on being complimented by the opposite sex on looks or any other kind. Women are on par with men so much that, they have grown stable financially,and have become independent to raise their voice, which is something really good. Still why should we narrow our perspectives as a social being? I have often observed women getting damn upset on hearing a comment from a guy on looks and gestures. Infact I used to wonder even, what is that thing that upsets them!
                A comment or a compliment should be taken in a right sense, and thats something today's dudettes lack! And guys have surely become too modest and coyish, fearing of all the possible troubles they are bound to invite with even a mild flirting. Ofcourse its the time of all those sexual harrasments and severe actions against them queing up in the line, obviously the guys do hesitate. Pity on you people! Well this atitude is something our system has cultured all the way. I really dont understand what it takes, if you just enjoy being noticed, and complimented. It gives you a confidence, makes you go social,and helps you widen your perspective to an extent. Well harmless flirting is always good, to have healthy social relationships.So all the dudettes out there, get ready to bat your eyelashes, and guys, its the time you play the Gallant! :)